need some help

[waz]

i'm trying to FXP a file to another computer from a friends computer and i get timed out every time but i had another friend test it out and with his settings he could do it


[13:27:20] 200 PORT command successful.
[13:27:20] RETR test.zip
[13:29:20] Connection lost: **.***.**.***
[13:29:20] Transfer Failed!

it keeps lossing the connection to the computer i'm trying to get the file from anyone know what settings i need to change? and the computer that i want to put the file on doesn't have PASSIVE enabled