Problems connecting to a site

[Testas]

* FlashFXP v[2].[1], build [924], [ ]registered, [X]unregistered, [ ]pirated
* OS [ ] WinXP, [X] Win2K, [ ] Win98, [ ] WinME, [ ] Other
* Running behind NAT/router [X] Yes & Model [Netopia 3351], [ ] No, [ ] Not sure
* Running firewall [X] Yes, Name [Sygate], Ver. [5.5 build 2516], or [ ] No
* Running Antivirus [X] Yes, Name [Norton 2004] or [ ] No
* Network [X] xDSL, [ ] CABLE, [ ] Dail-Up, [ ] Other

Having problems connecting to a site. Can't even get to the login. Have tried to disable both Firewall and Antivirus. Turned off Firewall in XP. Tried using Pasv mode. Forwarded port and filter (NAT) in router to my comp.

WinSock 2.0
Connecting to Roger's Site
Connected to Roger's Site -> IP=213.xxx.xx.xx PORT=81
Connection failed (Connection timed out)
Delaying for 120 seconds before reconnect attempt #1
Connecting to Roger's Site
Connected to Roger's Site -> IP=213.xxx.xx.xx PORT=81

When I use netstat the connection goes in to FIN_WAIT_2.

Any idea?

Any help appreciated.

[MxxCon]

obvious question,
are you absolutly sure that site is up and you have correct connect info?

[Testas]

Positiv. Have also tried tracert and ping with no problems. Given passw and user to a friend with different ISP and he had no problems connecting. Also tried with other Ftp-programs, same result. Is there some sort of prog that shows the establishing between the computers or something? So I can find out why the connection doesn't work?

[MxxCon]

Originally posted by Testas
Also tried with other Ftp-programs, same result."same result" as in can or can't connect?
you could try network sniffer such as free Ethereal, but i doubt it'll be of much use to you..

[slaverunner_200]

ghost surf, in case your isp is one of the clever ones